I'm no expert in anything. I can only give you life experiences.
You keep speaking of others, friends, people, etc… What I'm saying is the only person you need to answer to you. You need to be able to live yourself first. If things in your life aren't working then it's up you to change it. You can't rely on others. Once you get rid of the negatives in your life you can then start to be satisfied.Okay. I was happy with violin. I just don't know if I can do it.
I never meant to say you weren't good enough. People will treat you the way you treat them. If they don't then it's time to move on from them.Yea, things are good. I just hope I can actually play, violin.
Find your one true passion and go for it. If it's music then put everything into that and never look back. It doesn't matter what others think. If it's your passion then it's worth doing. Only you can can dictate your life.It's funny I was a music major, but I mightn't mind being a singer. Maybe, acting is a bit far fetched to pursue, anyway, considering I'd been doing music growing up.
What I meant as far as relationships is if you expect certain things of others you can be disappointed. Try to only rely on yourself first.Well, it seems like things were okay until other people involved themselves, like the person I have a relationship with needed them. It was too much, and sacrifices were made on my part like you said, if something bothers you eliminate it, except that thing that was eliminated was something about me, to other people and in some ways how the person I have a relationship can feel about me, pretty sick that people can do that and just figure it already happened.
There's nothing wrong with people liking you. You just can't expect that everybody will like you. That's not realistic. We're all different. That's what I mean if somebody in you life is bringing you pain then it's better to eliminate them. I know it sounds harsh and it's difficult but it really is better for your peace of mind.If other people broke something in my life, I intend to get it fixed. That happens to be another person in some "relationship.
Yes, if you're looking for answers by posting on these kinds of places that doesn't make sense. Most of the time in can be more detrimental to you.Right, but sometimes I feel accused for posting about the truth, like instead of looking for help am looking to demand and nobody wants me because it's an accident.
I'll say it one more time, if people are judging and getting angry with you for things you do then maybe these are not the people you want in your life.I know, but people know about the person I like and won't stop bothering us.
People basically seem almost as though they have succeeded in taking a relationship away from me. I'm always told I'm bad to have it, it seems. That effects day-to-day, eventually, and what seems to be true or necessary. Relationships are an important thing because people are supposedly important. I like this relationship a lot. However, when I hear myself say I like my relationship, I used to feel encouraged and now feel cast away.
So, how can I eliminate people in public constantly thinking about us because it supposedly made the person I have a relationship with uncomfortable? Even if they care and don't try to stir things up, I'm worried the relationship still is uncomfortable. I think maybe not, but it might be a little of both enjoyment and being nervous, which in general nervousness is okay.
Supposedly, people know about what she thinks in ways she doesn't seem to say herself. She used to not be upset herself with me. People just keep wanting to say I'm being selfish because she has a relationship with me. How do I get rid of those people? That's something that makes her uncomfortable about me.
Thanks for all your help and support while I figure these thoughts. You basically are into elimination. Is this a forever strategy or hoping things will iron out, like if someone else distracted other people instead of my relationship? I used to be seen as amazing for dealing with a lot of people knowing me, but now it's like I'm not needed and I can't believe it, just because the person I had a relationship with got it, instead.
To answer your next question, I think Ellen DeGeneres somehow "telepathically" channeled my relationship to the world when Hillary Clinton lost the Presidential Election in 2016, and my relationship has become exploited. Her reason is because she thinks my generation's parents are hard on us and she doesn't want to get in trouble by letting us have too good of a time, in ways we want to, even when it doesn't have to do with her. It seems like one element of being gay? to go further, I mean to worry about being too nice to people with harsh parents. Not sure if you/anyone gets this, already or something. I don't enjoy being put on the spotlight about this if no one's supposed to talk about it. Ellen DeGeneres is so critical and others about how I talk about them.
I don't know why people are so offensively good-to-go about the fact that my relationship is partially ruined. Also, I was interested in someone else and lost more of my relationship when I was through with the other person, who still comes into my life sometimes that I thought wouldn't bother me, while others don't do that. I think some people I knew turned on me, too, rather than have a healthy distance.
I'm upset that I keep getting in trouble if I think of a bad word by accident when people are mean to me a lot. If so, they ruin my relationship for the time being supposedly in some way.
I am sad about how I sit here and people who monitor my life "have" to get in on the action but have to be right, when they're just getting in on the action. This isn't perfect and ruins it, too.
I'm sick of people patrolling the knowledge that I had a good relationship and they think I didn't deserve it and took it away, in some ways. Sick and gay. They keep making up an excuse saying I wasn't good enough and they're offering my relationship an alternative. I'm not even on my relationship's case, so-to-speak, just have a good relationship. These people just keep making themselves seem important and social to sacrifice my having a good relationship, without knowing what's right and following through what's right. They aren't just having a nice time. They're ruining it specifically, but they get permission and don't make the right decision; Orlando is weird, and other places might not be like this now.
People are afraid of being responsible for the fact I get attention, too. The people who "monitor me..." seemed to disappear in 2005, which is also the year they appeared, and came back when I started watching Ellen DeGeneres in 2012. They bothered me now, though, like Ellen DeGeneres was afraid to be nice to me because people see me as in trouble according to my dad... So, it's like they're here for Ellen DeGeneres. Other people were actually involved, too. I'm not sure why they disappeared and my life was made miserable too though. I felt set up, like this this you might want to think, like I can't have a relationship with anyone. I mean, was I just having problems? I was getting manipulated. I used to be into Tim Burton and Johnny Depp because they were popular etc., same with Ellen DeGeneres. I really do eliminate people from my life that seem to bounce back in things we did, according to others. I even eliminated church. I just didn't eliminate things like my relationship, you know? I like that person. I am nice to others, who aren't so nice to me in the end, so many well-regarded people.
So, I already listened to your advice about elimination. I eliminated relationships that went wrong or that I grew tired of in some way. I eliminated things that got in the way, like church and school and work for now since I live at home. What now? Why do people keep coming back who bother me?
I've sacrificed so much and prized this relationship, but it's not okay in certain ways like it was before because they became popular over me, whereas before it was me and I had my relationship. I'm not supposed to think about how I also am well-know because it makes my relationship uncomfortable. Not sure who says this, but now the relationship is so important to others that she can't talk about this part of life, which I don't know if it's important, seems to be for the relationship now. In that thinking, you'd say the relationship didn't want this fame and then shouldn't have it. However, people bet to differ. You seem to be in on people in general like this, though, saying just to forget about such a good relationship being ruined just by other people. You haven't said anything about how sweet relationships are and how sad it is. I hope you're not just jealous out of nowhere in this specific case and upset. It's okay if it sounds cool, though, and you're interested and into it...?
Okay, I know I watched Dr. Phil once for awhile, and he just solves things by eliminating relationships. I don't want to eliminate just any relationship because other people traumatized them. I eliminated other things to focus on making life better. Are you saying I don't seem good enough and I should forget it? It's not just something to brush aside as dead. It's a person. Some people need to stop exploiting my relationship and teasing the person not to care about me, surrounding the person on every side. I don't know why it's hard to ignore, but I think the person has it better where they are and not everyone always batshit crazy in every way, like a lot of people here in Orlando.
What do you think about that? I thought I'd fill you in what you seem to be missing. Guessing you don't have an answer, but thanks for your advice, thus far.