I used to be encouraged, and now I keep being told I'm trying to force people to do things for me.  If anyone does anything for me, people tell me I'm bad!  What is their problem!  They are freaks!  I am afraid they are unintelligent.  They are easily persuaded and worried and make snap decisions that affect their lives.  I cannot live with juggling messages I did not even request.  I was off and happy, and now I'm the juggled bad guy.