What if some people were a little naughty and wanted to play cello because they thought the violin had problems and made fun of it?  Would that mean I would have to sacrifice my built interest in violin, through the grapevine because of them, like to trade but for no real reason?  Would people still care about them and/but at my expense?  It always happens in movies; before someone gets in trouble and something bad happens to them, they goof up in some other way, like it matters and fascinates the writer.